2015 Gratitude to YOU

[Beware of Junk Psychology...]

Happy New Year, bpdfamily Peeps! 

Congrats to all of us for living through whatever version of hell we experienced in 2015.  Mine sucked in so many ways.  And yet, I did everything I needed to do. Which was so hard at times.  But I did it.  So while 2015 sucked, there was much success too. 

I ended 2015 with a ONE YEAR of NC.  I am out of the FOG.  I shudder to think what my life would be like had I remained in this r/s.  As I write that I actually feel some gratitude that my ex's behavior got as extreme as it did.  What if he hadn't lost his sh*t?  I might still be trying to sort it out... .when it was never mine to sort out.  A very big lesson learned.

THANK YOU for your help in getting me there!  I am eternally grateful. 

Happy 2016 beautiful people!

[ReclaimingMyLife]

Happy New Year, bpdfamily Peeps! 

Congrats to all of us for living through whatever version of hell we experienced in 2015.  Mine sucked in so many ways.  And yet, I did everything I needed to do. Which was so hard at times.  But I did it.  So while 2015 sucked, there was much success too. 

I ended 2015 with a ONE YEAR of NC.  I am out of the FOG.  I shudder to think what my life would be like had I remained in this r/s.  As I write that I actually feel some gratitude that my ex's behavior got as extreme as it did.  What if he hadn't lost his sh*t?  I might still be trying to sort it out... .when it was never mine to sort out.  A very big lesson learned.

THANK YOU for your help in getting me there!  I am eternally grateful. 

Happy 2016 beautiful people!

[izabellizima]

this thread has been a god-send. for real.  i am sad sad sad but the fact that i KNOW i am not going through a regular breakup and others understand my pain is valuable.  thanks  you all!

[ReclaimingMyLife]

izabellizima, thank you for your reply.  This is an amazing community.  I am sorry you are sad, and I am glad you are here.  XOXO