Custom Facebook posts

[Beware of Junk Psychology...]

It's been almost two weeks since I broke up with my exBPDgf. I work with her, and she's giving me the silent treatment. Since the break up, she's posting lots of relationship based quotes. Most are depicting a woman who's been wronged. I've also noticed that a lot of these quotes and likes are sent to a custom list ... .ie. me. I'm beginning to realize, that most of it is to invoke in me feelings of guilt, fear, anger, and most importantly doubt.

I know the solution is to stay off Facebook, and I will try to, but I'm beginning to be worried that she's beginning to sound vindictive. I would have hoped that she would have moved on by now,and I'm worried that she will begin to smear me at work.

[Rayban]

It's been almost two weeks since I broke up with my exBPDgf. I work with her, and she's giving me the silent treatment. Since the break up, she's posting lots of relationship based quotes. Most are depicting a woman who's been wronged. I've also noticed that a lot of these quotes and likes are sent to a custom list ... .ie. me. I'm beginning to realize, that most of it is to invoke in me feelings of guilt, fear, anger, and most importantly doubt.

I know the solution is to stay off Facebook, and I will try to, but I'm beginning to be worried that she's beginning to sound vindictive. I would have hoped that she would have moved on by now,and I'm worried that she will begin to smear me at work.

[UserName69]

There is an option in Facebook that allows you to hide posts from specific users. You won't see her status updates in your news feed anymore.

It's a way she uses to communicate with you. Whenever mine blocked me from Facebook after we recycled I could see that she posted many pics like the one you have described during the breakup.

[shatra]

I would have hoped that she would have moved on by now

====After only 2 weeks?  That's a very short time. Even for a non BPD, and BPDs can hold on for a lot longer, or go back and forth for a lot longer