They indicate effort to me as well, but I would make plans ahead of time for a possible weekend of 'letting her hair down' with her family again.
What plans are you going to make for yourself knowing what might occur? How could you deal with this ahead of time?
I can't remember how long since you actually moved in, but it's very early days yet.
This coming weekend will be the third weekend in the house.
My plan revolves around maximizing my sleep as I have chances to get it and trying to accomplish what I can around the house.
Communication was full of contempt and strain this morning. There was some pot of a dip or something that I asked about. It was made and has been sitting out since the weekend. I asked an open ended question about if she cared what happened with it.
"Normally people put stuff like that in the fridge so it won't spoil, but you can do whatever you like with it."
I thought about labeling it as talk full of contempt, but just disengaged. I believe I said "I see, " or something like that.
FF