Completely Disgusted as He begins Possible Court Battle

[How to communicate after a contentious divorce...]

I just found out that my STBX has retained a lawyer... .I am waiting for their meeting to be done and my lawyer to inform me of what this is about! How can an adulterer have a lawyer and think he is going to get out of paying for a divorce? He and the gf just posted some kind of disgusting semi-pro pictures of themselves on FB of them on the beach with her belly exposed and the name of the baby in the sand! Naming the baby after his Mother of course! He is still trying to win her affection! I am horrified! I see this is all about the attention! If for some reason he is going to claim mentally ill and I took advantage of it by getting him to pay me alimony- He will need to be careful because that could go against him in the future with the baby! Im just horrified by this whole situation! Help! I am so upset and feel awful all over again! I know... .this is all about attention for them! I would never do this stuff... so trashy! It's probably like it was with me- Blissfully happy one minute- horribly miserable the next!

[Herodias]

I just found out that my STBX has retained a lawyer... .I am waiting for their meeting to be done and my lawyer to inform me of what this is about! How can an adulterer have a lawyer and think he is going to get out of paying for a divorce? He and the gf just posted some kind of disgusting semi-pro pictures of themselves on FB of them on the beach with her belly exposed and the name of the baby in the sand! Naming the baby after his Mother of course! He is still trying to win her affection! I am horrified! I see this is all about the attention! If for some reason he is going to claim mentally ill and I took advantage of it by getting him to pay me alimony- He will need to be careful because that could go against him in the future with the baby! Im just horrified by this whole situation! Help! I am so upset and feel awful all over again! I know... .this is all about attention for them! I would never do this stuff... so trashy! It's probably like it was with me- Blissfully happy one minute- horribly miserable the next!

[Herodias]

She keeps posting "He completes me in every way"... .Its so hard to see knowing all of the horrific stuff he has done to me! She is trying to make everyone think he is so wonderful! He loves it I am sure- this is exactly the crap he feeds off of! Horrible-it so awful to look at knowing  he is a manipulating, lying, selfish, serial cheating, drug and alcohol abusing, porn addicted, abuser!

[patientandclear]

That would be very hard for me to take.

That's why I no longer look. It's like a solemn vow I've taken to be in my own corner.

[Herodias]

June 17 and I'm done! Just gathering adultery evidence at this point. I don't want to see it! My paralegal even said "gross"... .His own mother even deleted him off of her friends list because of these pictures! That's how bad it is! He's such a idiot! You would think they would mirror the person they want the most attention from! Mirror their own family- it's just ridiculous. There's the mistress with her fat stomach hanging over her pants like a beer bellied man! Not even a baby bump like normal pregnant women have pictures taken of. I'd be embarrassed - just trashy. Oddly enough, he's wearing a shirt he barely fit in since we first met. He must have lost allot of weight for these photos- he's gone on extreme diets before- he also would rather drink than eat. It's all not good.