hi HoneyB33 and

im glad you found us, and reached out; youre in the right place, and among friends .
healing from the abuse, separating ourselves from our exes, separating ourselves from projections and accusations, its not easy going and doesnt happen over night.
as to your question, we have a reviewed list of books here:
https://bpdfamily.com/content/book-reviewsyou can also check out a longer list of book reviews here:
https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?board=33.0personally? i highly recommend the journey from abandonment to healing, by susan anderson, on that first link.
welcome again. i hope when youre ready you will share more of your story with us; it helps to talk and we are here for you 24/7.