Home page of BPDFamily.com, online relationship supportMember registration here
April 29, 2025, 06:42:23 PM *
Welcome, Guest. Please login or register.

Login with username, password and session length
Board Admins: Kells76, Once Removed, Turkish
Senior Ambassadors: EyesUp, SinisterComplex
  Help!   Boards   Please Donate Login to Post New?--Click here to register  
bing
Books members most read
105
The High
Conflict Couple
Loving Someone with
Borderline Personality Disorder
Loving the
Self-Absorbed
Borderline Personality
Disorder Demystified
Pages: [1]   Go Down
« previous next »
  Print  
Author Topic: Staying positive and having fun  (Read 514 times)
Herodias
********
Offline Offline

Gender: Female
What is your sexual orientation: Straight
Who in your life has "personality" issues: Ex-romantic partner
Posts: 1787
« on: June 02, 2016, 10:51:48 PM »
I just got home from seeing Cyndi Lauper tonight- it was really fun. It's fun to watch people. It's weird how you can spot the narcissists really quickly. I ushered the show, so I met a bunch of people. It's fun! Too bad my ex couldn't be here, Laugh out loud (click to insert in post) I'm having more fun than I did with him around that is for sure! Two more weeks until my divorce - I'm on the countdown- going to have fun and stay positive! Live life- that's the key to success- get out and enjoy!
Logged
Sadly
******
Offline Offline

Gender: Female
What is your sexual orientation: Straight
Who in your life has "personality" issues: Ex-romantic partner
Relationship status: Very Single
Posts: 886
« Reply #1 on: June 03, 2016, 12:20:33 AM »
Well done BH, inspiration and determination, thanks
Logged
Never let someone be your priority whilst you remain their option
londons
**
Offline Offline

What is your sexual orientation: Straight
Who in your life has "personality" issues: Ex-romantic partner
Posts: 84
« Reply #2 on: June 03, 2016, 01:13:48 AM »
good for you, my friend!  keep it up!  i am soo not there yet (5 months), but i am trying.  my therapist yesterday said something interesting... .  that we always say we had unconditional love for our significant other.  well, in a relationship, it IS conditional!  that we must have expectations on how we expect to be treated, and we have conditions under which we SHOULD be treated.  if not, we have reason to move on... .anyway, he said it much better, but it made sense at the time Smiling (click to insert in post). love for our children is unconditional.  love for our mate is conditional.  it's true!   hugs, londons
Logged
Lifewriter16
*******
Offline Offline

Gender: Female
What is your sexual orientation: Straight
Who in your life has "personality" issues: Ex-romantic partner
Relationship status: GF/BF only. We never lived together.
Posts: 1003
« Reply #3 on: June 03, 2016, 04:08:45 AM »
That sounds wonderful, Herodias. I need FUN in my life.

Londons, I agree with your therapist. My new motto is: Shape up or ship out! I guess it will be the latter for my BPDxbf, but I can almost handle that now. I'm on the home straits, anyway.

Lifewriter x
Logged
freemanstrut
**
Offline Offline

What is your sexual orientation: Straight
Who in your life has "personality" issues: Ex-romantic partner
Posts: 58
« Reply #4 on: June 03, 2016, 08:09:56 AM »
Glad you had a great night, BH!
Logged
Lucky Jim
********
Offline Offline

Gender: Male
What is your sexual orientation: Straight
Who in your life has "personality" issues: Ex-romantic partner
Posts: 6211
« Reply #5 on: June 03, 2016, 09:37:02 AM »
Like what you are saying, Herodias.

Life is so much more peaceful and fun without all the drama, isn't it?

I enjoy life without the daily expectation of a confrontation!

LuckyJim
Logged
    A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing.
George Bernard Shaw
greenmonkey
***
Offline Offline

Gender: Female
What is your sexual orientation: Gay, lesb
Who in your life has "personality" issues: Ex-romantic partner
Posts: 196
« Reply #6 on: June 03, 2016, 11:07:27 AM »
sounds like a great night  Being cool (click to insert in post)

I have been following your threads - and it is great to see such positivity and true happiness.

Life does get better - soo much better. There is peace, calm, tranquility, laughter and happiness all which was lost due to the BPD ex's in our lives. So nice to read a truly uplifting post
Logged
JerryRG
********
Offline Offline

What is your sexual orientation: Straight
Who in your life has "personality" issues: Ex-romantic partner
Posts: 1832
« Reply #7 on: June 03, 2016, 12:05:42 PM »
Hey Blue, 

Keep getting better 
Logged
Can You Help Us Stay on the Air in 2024?
Pages: [1]   Go Up
  Print  
BPDFamily.com > Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) > Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship > Topic: Staying positive and having fun
« previous next »
 
Jump to:  

Our 2023 Financial Sponsors
We are all appreciative of the members who provide the funding to keep BPDFamily on the air.
12years
alterK
AskingWhy
At Bay
Cat Familiar
CoherentMoose
drained1996
EZEarache
Flora and Fauna
ForeverDad
Gemsforeyes
Goldcrest
Harri
healthfreedom4s
hope2727
khibomsis
Lemon Squeezy
Memorial Donation (4)
Methos
Methuen
Mommydoc
Mutt
P.F.Change
Penumbra66
Red22
Rev
SamwizeGamgee
Skip
Swimmy55
Tartan Pants
Turkish
whirlpoollife


Powered by MySQL Powered by PHP Powered by SMF 1.1.21 | SMF © 2006-2020, Simple Machines Valid XHTML 1.0! Valid CSS!