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I'm at the point in our break up where I feel like going for broke, sending her a text saying "I feel like this is all a nightmare. Take me home please." But this would be counter-productive to everything, no? Since she is in push mode, it will make her push harder-- that's the logic, right? But what if this is our last chance?
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Maybe just say how you are feeling and that you are there for her if she needs you.
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How long have you been broken up?
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Just about a week and a half :'(
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