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Harrassing phone calls to my work
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June 17, 2016, 02:56:00 PM »
I moved out and have kept my location secret to avoid stalking. I have been emailing my wife every day or two and have told her I am fine, just unhappy with the marriage.
I work remotely, but she has twice called my workplace hq, once last week, once this week, asking if I still worked there, saying noone knew where I was and everyone was wondering if I was ok.
Is there a way to fix this? Restraining order? Police report? My attorney is out until next monday.
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While your attorney is out notify your Human Resources Department (and Security Department if your employer has one) about your situation, they will work with you ie: not transfer her calls to you, protect your information if you ask them etc.
I would start there until your attorney returns.
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Thanks,
I notified HR and my boss the day I left my wife - hoping that I was being paranoid and that this wouldn't be necessary.
I was hoping for the best but I have done everything I have been able to prepare for the worst - it appears to be headed down that road.
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My lawyer was still in the office, he's going to start with a cease and desist.
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