Help not sure if I'll get another go

[Confused2much]

It's horrible that you're in a situation like that.

In my earlier reply I said "You can't save these people. You're better off without her. I've realised that and I hope you do too." but I think I was trying to convince myself more than you.

I'm in a similar state and just torn up at the moment. Being in love with these people is pure torture.

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[Xstang77]

Yea it doesn't say she's in a relationship or anything but still,I'd give anything to get rid of this pain and feeling of left behind and emptiness,do you guys think she'll cycle through after all this? My friends say if I don't respond to her she'll knock on my door in less then a week. I've accepted the fact that the easiest way to make this pain go away is either have her come back by some miracle or find someone new but it's really tough in my area,meanwhile she's seeing her second guy since we ended a month ago? Is this really it aside from what I want will she comeback for a time after all this and the fact it's been over a month?

[Xstang77]

So I still haven't contacted her or replied to her message,then yesterday I went to a park and my friends tagged a girl saying she was with us even though she wasn't that my ex had told my sister she was very jealous of,I'm really surprised she hasn't reached out more in pull mode and jealousy, could this really be it?