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« Reply #30 on: August 29, 2016, 07:26:55 PM »

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no haven't made that leap yet... .think I will move to the deciding board... .still hoping she will come around.  But I have realized that I am no good to anyone her on myself in my current state.

I  have felt for awhile that I needed to fix me, and she always agrees but then something always goes wrong and I cant step away long enough to fox anything
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« Reply #31 on: August 29, 2016, 08:42:23 PM »

Trust me you will know, hence just asking the question I think you may have the answer
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« Reply #32 on: August 29, 2016, 11:19:43 PM »

Not sure who wrote this, but it seemed to fit in, following Don'tknow88's post. And, the original post's question: 'When is it Time to Quit?'

Spirituality 101

Recipe for Answers: Take a moment during an exceptionally difficult day you are in the midst of. Use this moment to clear your mind of all the things you've been stressing over. Take a deep breath and be sure that it's clear. Think about what love is for a second. Real universal love. Big love. Bigger than life LOVE! Now ask your serious question as concise as possible. Be sincere. Don't second guess it. If you do, start over. If you take it serious the powers beyond you will respect that and take it seriously too. Are you ready? Are you really ready for the truth? Are you true to yourself enough to get your answer and act accordingly? Or are you going to see the answer and deny its yours? Whether you deny it or not, it is the right answer. Are you gonna gamble with someone who never loses or are you gonna accept the facts and get on with living right here? Right here how it is & right here where you stand at this moment, in perfect harmony with everything. Life it's not luck, it's love!
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« Reply #33 on: August 30, 2016, 12:02:22 PM »

Not sure who wrote this, but it seemed to fit in, following Don'tknow88's post. And, the original post's question: 'When is it Time to Quit?'

Spirituality 101

Recipe for Answers: Take a moment during an exceptionally difficult day you are in the midst of. Use this moment to clear your mind of all the things you've been stressing over. Take a deep breath and be sure that it's clear. Think about what love is for a second. Real universal love. Big love. Bigger than life LOVE! Now ask your serious question as concise as possible. Be sincere. Don't second guess it. If you do, start over. If you take it serious the powers beyond you will respect that and take it seriously too. Are you ready? Are you really ready for the truth? Are you true to yourself enough to get your answer and act accordingly? Or are you going to see the answer and deny its yours? Whether you deny it or not, it is the right answer. Are you gonna gamble with someone who never loses or are you gonna accept the facts and get on with living right here? Right here how it is & right here where you stand at this moment, in perfect harmony with everything. Life it's not luck, it's love!


Agreed great advice
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