You and your wife have ended that relationship why go back to it?
Somehow this is not getting understood. If we both had ended it... .this would be simple decision.
No offense whatsoever... .please keep hammering away hard.
My current idea (there are several drafts) is to focus exclusively on boundary setting/clarity and try to eliminate all JADE from it... .or "differences with BC"
I do see that point... quite valid. If I did want to get into differences with BC... .I should focus only on that, and not comingle boundaries and debate about points of view.
These posts are really helpful. It's also helpful to write all this out for me and then decide what to actually send.
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