SurvivorWithKids,
I have shared custody with my exuBPDw, I had a S5, S8, and D10 and we're separated for nearly three years and divorced for one year but the first year after the split there were a lot of hurt feelings and conflict, I had to stop the bleeding. I'm not saying that your situation is the same, everyone's situation and exe's are different but can you give us a little back story? Do you have a court order? How old are your kids? How long have you been separated? What are some of the issues?
