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Deceiving & leaving
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October 25, 2016, 05:04:39 AM »
Ultimately planning to leave he entered my life. Singing lies into my ears while gazing into my eyes. What a load of crap bit it could happen. You don't believe but it soothes so don't touch that dial. The titles to every song is deceit. But ignored the off beat, thinking with time it could tweaked; into protection. All i knew finally someone was "playing" my favorite song. I imagined this melody long before i heard it I planned to work with him and introduce it to the world so they could see, it was a struggle but we created the perfect melody; together. oops!
How was I suppose to know the man was deaf tone and never stopped singing songs into other ears? I thought he liked that I was his biggest fan. I didn't know he collected them. How was I suppose to know he was in search of another venue? When he said he had found the perfect one. How was I suppose to know the ultimate plan?
His stage name? Tornado in disguise. I HATE HIM!
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Let it out, Done4! I know it hurts like crazy and it's not fair. I'm sorry you are going through this.
You are learning a lot, which will help you have better relationships in the future. But for now, sing your song of injustice... .
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You are always stronger when standing up for yourself. Don't forget; especially when guilt comes into play. Good healinf to you.
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