Breakup number twothousand two hundred and who cares

[adaw]

My BPD partner went to visit her kids abroad. the first week went well. i am taking care of the estate while she is away. a few days before her return all hell broke lose, needless to say, again. She has recorded some of her outburst. (Started doing this after she realized i use surveillance equipment to record her in order to protect myself against her accusations  of being a bully). she listened to her recordings and made up her mind that i have severe violent trends and will take the files to the police so i can be locked up. i know she was gaslighting. the next moment my cellphone, emails and social networks accounts are hacked and my computer is under attack. i know she hired someone to do this. but what she did not know is that i had security measures installed out of paranoia. yes she gets to me. she then blocked all my accounts and went NC.
Today she will return and i am not sure if it will be my loving partner or a full blown i am about to receive.

[icky]

wow. you guys use surveillance equipment on each other and hack (and pre-empt hacking of) each other's accounts? . this is like the film Mr. and Mrs. Smith  : ).

[icky]

wow, i just read some of your other posts. you also try and get each other committed to mental hospitals? why are you guys (still) together?

[icky]

i apologise for saying that. it slipped out, because i was shocked - but that is no excuse. i didn't mean to be judgemental. sorry.

[formflier]

Adaw,

There have been elements of this in my r/s.  Looks like you have focused on your security and keeping out hackers... .whoever they may be.  As long as your measures are working... .I would leave it at that. 

Investigations into who is doing the hacking usually do more damage than just dropping the matter.

Once there is no shocked reaction... .usually the behavior gets less.

FF

[adaw]

i am staying NC for her sake. she tries to drag me into her dramas and i just keep quiet. the surveillance is necessary to proof that i am the victim and not the perp.
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