Bpd

[08031990]

I have been with my wife for over 10 years she just fine out that she has this condition BPD and she wanted us to divorce because she thinks is not fare for to be with someone in her condition we got to the point where I was planning on living my house by the end of the year but now it turns out to where we have had several conversations about this so we came to a conclusion that we are not taking the divorce option We have taken the option of keep working on the reletaionship and work this out.

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[Mutt]

Hi 08031990,



I'd like to welcome you to  bpdfamily. I'm happy to hear that you both decided to work on the r/s So she was diagnosed, did they suggest a treatment plan? Are you in therapy together? Are you seeing a T/ Do you have kids together?

I'd suggest to read as much as you can about the disorder, you'll quickly see the benefits and become proficient over time.