i think my wife may be BPD

[alan1999]

 i think i may be codependent i have read about BPD so i try to set limits and now she does not talk to me and she is treating to end the relation ship.

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[Mutt]

Hi alan1999,



I'd like to welcome you to  bpdfamily. I'm glad that you decided to join us. It helps to talk to people that can relate with you and offer you guidance and support.

It's not an unusual reaction from a pwBPD when we set a boundary, a pwBPD don't like change.

What boundary did you set and why?