Grandbabies don’t know me

[HeartbrokenGma]

Hi all,
I’m a newer Grandma who is missing the connection with my son’s children.  He is married to a girl that appears to have borderline personality disorder.  We have to jump through so many hoops in order to see our precious grandchildren.  It has been like walking on eggshells in order to not day or do anything to upset her. It’s been so emotional and I can’t believe I have grandchildren that don’t even know us.  There are so many disrespectful texts and behaviors that she does, I can’t even begin.  I try to communicate just with our son, but she rules every thing he does.

I guess I’m just venting and heartbroken.  Thanks for listening.

Our objective is to better understand the struggles our child faces and to learn the skills to improve our relationship and provide a supportive environment and also improve on our own emotional responses, attitudes and effectiveness as a family leaders