Hi. I'm Philip. I need help with my bpd ex?girlfriend. In 2024, me and my ex girlfriend had a 6 month relationship. For the first 3 months, everything was going great and there was no issues. After 3 months, we started arguing, and then I ended up always being the one broken up with and then ended up having to chase her back, missing her completely. At the end of 2024, we had the final breakup and then she had this new dude for about 2 years, In june 2026, they broke up and then in july 2026, i met up with her, spoke things out and asked her did she get better w her stuff, and is she more mature now? we got back together. For the first month or so, we were arguing but no breaking up. Now it feels like she always tries to argue with me, then breaks up with me on purpose, just for us to get back together 2 days later. It's exhausting, but i always loved her and i don't know what to do, Please any help will be appreciated. I need advice on this. I'm tired of the cycle of us always breaking up even tho i love her and im pretty sure she loves me. (EDIT): During arguments, either me or who her starts it, will always end up me being painted as a dick, and an asshole. I don't know why she always paints me as this evil person during the argument. As of right now, 27/09/26, we are broken up and in no contact.
