Strange and no meaning actions.

[Family Court Strategies: When Your Partner Has BPD OR NPD Traits.]

Hi everybody.

Here's everything going super actually. Just come home from a super holiday, and my batteries are fully charged:-)

Then here the other day I suddenly saw that my ex had unblocked me on instagram... .Wierd. It's been almost 10 months since we last had any contact, and in the meanwhile she have reported me to the police for stalking  Of course the case was dropped because of lack of evidence. She basically just made things up and then reported me? After the charges was dropped she changed her add listing to unlisted, but still lives the same place and have det same tlf number? I didn't hear anything from her (thank god) and now 4 months later she suddenly unblock me!

Just wonder why she still uses energi on me? I dosen't even think about her eksistens anymore and have met a new girl and been dating. Is she stuck? And why will she keep doing strange things when I don't respond and she dosen't "really" contact me? If she had something importen to say, or wanted contact, she could at least send me a mail or something

It just assure me that she's sick, and not getting any better!

If you are in a breakup I recommend you to read all my posts. Think you will recognize a lot of the things i went through.

Have a nice day and remember the world is NOT black or white ;-)

[Cosuffer]

Hi everybody.

Here's everything going super actually. Just come home from a super holiday, and my batteries are fully charged:-)

Then here the other day I suddenly saw that my ex had unblocked me on instagram... .Wierd. It's been almost 10 months since we last had any contact, and in the meanwhile she have reported me to the police for stalking  Of course the case was dropped because of lack of evidence. She basically just made things up and then reported me? After the charges was dropped she changed her add listing to unlisted, but still lives the same place and have det same tlf number? I didn't hear anything from her (thank god) and now 4 months later she suddenly unblock me!

Just wonder why she still uses energi on me? I dosen't even think about her eksistens anymore and have met a new girl and been dating. Is she stuck? And why will she keep doing strange things when I don't respond and she dosen't "really" contact me? If she had something importen to say, or wanted contact, she could at least send me a mail or something

It just assure me that she's sick, and not getting any better!

If you are in a breakup I recommend you to read all my posts. Think you will recognize a lot of the things i went through.

Have a nice day and remember the world is NOT black or white ;-)

[Cosuffer]

Hi

I read my earlier post where I wrote that I had unblocked her from all the social medias. YES I also unblock, but when I did it it wasn't just one site and the blocking again and so on! I blocked her on all sites for about10 month ago, and now I'vd moved on, and therefor I just unblocked her again. I thought, since she have blocked me anyway:-)

I don't use the social media for some kind of strange push pull. Now you see me, now you don't stuff. If I wanted contact I would send her a txt, mail or just call. A normal approatch;-)

[heartandwhole]

Hi Cosuffer,

Congrats on coming along so far in your recovery! That is really good news. Your holiday sounds like it was very nice as well. 

I wouldn't read too much into the unblocking by your ex. There are a million reasons why she may have done that, and none of them, in my opinion, will make a difference for you.

You've clearly moved on and she will do what she does—blocking or unblocking has no effect on your life anymore. 

heartandwhole