Found out my hubby is BPD- Wow

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I JUST FOUNd out my new hubby was BPD and I dont know what to do. This has been a year full of turmoil. But i dont want to give up tet. He is in hospital now on 3rd suicide attempt... does he even love me if he keeps doing this?

[Bondochic]

I JUST FOUNd out my new hubby was BPD and I dont know what to do. This has been a year full of turmoil. But i dont want to give up tet. He is in hospital now on 3rd suicide attempt... does he even love me if he keeps doing this?

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[livednlearned]

Hi Bondochic,

Three suicide attempts

He must be in tremendous pain, and you as well, trying to make sense of this.

Was he recently diagnosed?

Does he accept his diagnosis?

I'm glad you reached out and hope you'll let us know how you're doing. It's not easy to go it alone, and there is lots to learn from people who have walked in your shoes.

Hang in there, we're here for you.

LnL