Will it be a Happy Mothers Day?

[Moonshiney]

I am new to this board.  My BPD daughter hates me as much as she loves me.    Mother's Day is tomorrow and I will be spending the day with her.  If only Mother's Day could be a day I could enjoy, but she is so mean on special days like holidays and birthdays - I just don't get it.  I'll work on my validating and hope it's not another day walking on eggs.  My own mom and I are waiting to see what mood she will be in before we visit her.  If she is out of sorts - it will be just me visiting mom.  I hope all the moms here have a wonderful Mother's Day and our BPD people are calm and loving.

Our objective is to better understand the struggles our child faces and to learn the skills to improve our relationship and provide a supportive environment and also improve on our own emotional responses, attitudes and effectiveness as a family leaders

[Mutt]

Hi Moonshiney,



Happy Mothers Day