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How to communicate after a contentious divorce... Following a contentious divorce and custody battle, there are often high emotion and tensions between the parents. Research shows that constant and chronic conflict between the parents negatively impacts the children. The children sense their parents anxiety in their voice, their body language and their parents behavior. Here are some suggestions from Dean Stacer on how to avoid conflict.
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Author Topic: I see the Light I see the Light Almost out of the tunnel There's hope  (Read 330 times)
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Who in your life has "personality" issues: Ex-romantic partner
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« on: June 05, 2017, 11:25:19 AM »

Hello everyone!

I just want to share the fact that i am no longer in the deep deep tunnel, i have been seeing the light for the past weeks and i think that im almost out of this crazy nightmare that we have all experienced with these evil, heartless creatures, its been almost 2months of absolute no contact and i believe im getting extremely better, i went from stalking my ex pages 2 to 3 times a day to not seeing anything in 2 weeks, i dont miss her, i can do other things, i can see other people, i can become interested by other people, its like my interests and the things i loved to do, i can actually do them and enjoy myself, the thoughts of her still exist but they dont really bother me, its like they're here but they dont hurt me.

I would say that im 90-95% out of this crazy nightmare. Fortunately for me, this only lasted about 4 months for me, so yeah, but my point to everyone in here is, i was very very very hurt, i felt like my life didnt make sense anymore, i didnt want to eat, go out, do anything, i felt terrible and rock bottom, but that dark cloud has sailed away and slowly, the sun lights are pouring in more and more and more untill my days become ABSOLUTELY clear.

Hang in there everyone, it will get better. I PROMISE YOU.

Think of everyday as a fight, a battle, everyday you're 1% into getting out.

Thanks for everyone who has helped me here. It meant alot and changed a lot the way i saw things and felt things. Thanks!
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« Reply #1 on: June 05, 2017, 12:09:00 PM »

good to hear! i cant wait til im through my tunnel... .getting closer everyday
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