10 years ago I fled

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Hi, Now he's shown up here. I can't have friends, a life, a career. He calls my work, my friends, volunteering and anyone. I want to live away and make more money but I live in old fashioned FL. I wish I'd never come back here. How can I take my 8 yr old to Atlanta? I have family there. It's super hard in FL to leave with the 50/50 custody nonsense. And I don't have money.

If I had money this never would have happened. I hate feeling powerless.

[Southern Vet]

Hi, Now he's shown up here. I can't have friends, a life, a career. He calls my work, my friends, volunteering and anyone. I want to live away and make more money but I live in old fashioned FL. I wish I'd never come back here. How can I take my 8 yr old to Atlanta? I have family there. It's super hard in FL to leave with the 50/50 custody nonsense. And I don't have money.

If I had money this never would have happened. I hate feeling powerless.

[Panda39]

Hi Southern Vet

Welcome to the BPD Family    

Can you share a little more of your story?  I gather you moved to Florida and your ex has followed you there?  I'm not sure by your post, are you divorced or still married?  

How can we help you?

Panda39

[Southern Vet]

Hi Panda,

It took 4 yrs and financial ruin but we finally divorced. Having been through abuse counseling, bankruptcy, 4 attempted restraining orders (one temporarily stuck), 9 child welfare cases and another 15 police calls he instigated after we separated, what I'm looking for is just solidarity.

I'm a veteran. This hurts for a very, very, long time. Better and Listening.

SV