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Before you can make things better, you have to stop making them worse... Have you considered that being critical, judgmental, or invalidating toward the other parent, no matter what she or he just did will only make matters worse? Someone has to be do something. This means finding the motivation to stop making things worse, learning how to interrupt your own negative responses, body language, facial expressions, voice tone, and learning how to inhibit your urges to do things that you later realize are contributing to the tensions.
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DearHusband
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« on: December 24, 2017, 11:00:10 AM »
Hello All,

Merry Christmas Eve! I know many are in stressful situations right now, but it is still a time to celebrate.   

I was originally going to write a post about the inequity and asymmetry of BPD relationships, but then I just didn't need to. Peace to all.

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« Reply #1 on: December 26, 2017, 10:48:27 AM »
@DearHusband, Peace to you and yours as well! v/r Red5
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