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TonettaTheGreat
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Could there be trouble in paradise?
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So. my ex-used to "love" a certain wrestler, to the point where she had them as her second name, Well, I go snooping, on friends FB (She has me blocked) and I come to see that she's changed it back to her real name. Complete with Harley Quinn cosplay picture. Now what is intriguing, Is her and her new "boyfriend" I put it in quotations because he's in America, we're in the UK, Had their anniversary yesterday, and my friend told me, they didn't make a big deal on social media about it, which is what my ex usually did with me at least. Make a big post, tag me in it, etc, etc.
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Dude, I know you’re in pain, but you seriously need to let go now.
How are you helping yourself by stalking her Facebook and questioning every small thing?
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I agree with lostinanother. Looking at her fb only prolongs your agony. Make a pact with yourself that you won't look at her fb for some time (a week, 2 weeks, a month... .) and stick with it. We all know how tempting it is, but it a constant reopening of the wound that is trying to heal.
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Tonetta,
I am not sure how old you are. Maybe you’re still young.
We’ve all been there I’m sure but it seems like you have to ask yourself is this the kind of guy you want to be or are you better than that?
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