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Author Topic: Father of two. Mother of my children is diagnosed BPD/schizoaffective.  (Read 535 times)
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« on: January 25, 2018, 01:32:13 PM »

Hello, I have been with my partner for 7 years. We have two kids and we are not married but we live together. I'm starting to see a real need to connect with others that live with similar conditions.
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« Reply #1 on: January 25, 2018, 04:07:17 PM »

hi LoFi and Welcome

good on you, connect away! its so important to have a strong support system in place in these relationships, and youve found a community of folks that get it, have lived it, and can really help.

tell us more. what are conditions like?
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« Reply #2 on: January 25, 2018, 09:50:41 PM »

Hi LoFi,

I've known a few people with schizoaffective disorder. I know this can present a lot of challenges for a household and takes a lot of balancing. 

Can you tell us more about what is going on these days?

wishing you well, pearl.
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« Reply #3 on: January 25, 2018, 09:55:35 PM »

Hi LoFi,

I have two kids with their mom. We weren't married.  She is diagnosed with Depression and Anxiety (BPD traits are my arm chair Dx).

What's going on and how can we help? How are the kids doing?

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