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« on: February 01, 2018, 08:20:39 PM »

I am grieving my daughters suicide-
She tried everything to keep hope
She was tormented
She had no relief she was 27
I am grieving so badly
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« Reply #1 on: February 01, 2018, 08:46:47 PM »

Oh, Myhero, I am so, so, very sorry.  My heart is crying with you.
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« Reply #2 on: February 01, 2018, 08:58:59 PM »

Myhero,
I am so very, very sorry for what you are going through. I am glad you are reaching out through this community. We are all here for you. I have not personally been in your situation, but I am not a stranger to grief. Please know that there are lots of resources here, and people to talk to and/or vent to. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.

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« Reply #3 on: February 02, 2018, 01:33:03 AM »

How I wish I had words to take away your pain, Myhero.  How I wish!

Please accept my condolences.  I am so, so sorry for the loss of your daughter.

I'm giving you a ((HUG).

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« Reply #4 on: February 02, 2018, 01:46:49 AM »

I am so sorry, Myhero... .
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« Reply #5 on: February 02, 2018, 09:24:45 AM »

Im so sorry for your loss sending hugs and prayers
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« Reply #6 on: February 02, 2018, 04:50:14 PM »

Myhero, I just want to join the others in expressing my deepest sympathy on reading about your sad loss. No parent should lose their child like this and my heart goes out to you. I hope that you have lots of support around you at this most difficult time, my thoughts are with you xxx
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« Reply #7 on: February 02, 2018, 05:15:15 PM »

Myhero, I would like to join the others in offering you my heartfelt condolences  after watching your daughter struggle and trying to find hope , you must be feeling truely heartbroken . My heart goes out to you and your family and may your beautiful daughter rest finally in peace 
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« Reply #8 on: February 02, 2018, 05:22:53 PM »

My deepest sympathies on the loss of your beautiful daughter. This disorder steals so much from those who suffer and those who surround them. Do not ever doubt that she knew you loved her. Do not ever doubt how hard you tried to help her. BPD makes me think of a cancer of the soul. It devours their spirit. Please don't let it devour yours. You are allowed to grieve. You are allowed to mourn. You are allowed to do whatever it takes to survive this sorrow. But please, please survive. You are not alone. We are here. Read, write, and heal. 
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« Reply #9 on: February 02, 2018, 06:35:30 PM »

Myhero, I'm so sorry for your loss, of your beautiful daughter, my deepest condolences to you and your family and friends.

Your daughter fought hard, I relate - hardest fight and greatest loss for you.

We are here for you Myhero.   Share her bright light with us if and when you feel able.

Share your grief with us, we will hold you in our arms.

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« Reply #10 on: February 02, 2018, 08:38:38 PM »

Myhero,
I'm so sorry for your incredibly painful loss.  My heart truly goes out to you.  I hope that you have friends and family to support you through this.   Please know that we are all here for you too.   You are not alone.
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« Reply #11 on: February 02, 2018, 08:52:02 PM »

Myhero,

I'd like to join everyone else here in sending you my deepest condolences at this tragic time.  No mother should suffer such a terrible loss.  My heart goes out to you. 

May you in time take some peace from the fact that she is no longer tormented as she was. 

The whole community feels your loss and sends love and light to you. 

Harley Quinn       
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« Reply #12 on: February 02, 2018, 10:47:48 PM »

What happened,  Myhero, and how are you and your family supporting each other though this? Do you have support?

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« Reply #13 on: February 03, 2018, 12:05:48 AM »

Myhero I can't even comprehend what you must be going through I am so sorry. Words seem so insufficient.  Just know you truly loved her and did all that you could, this is something we cannot control.  I am so sorry.

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« Reply #14 on: February 03, 2018, 09:05:14 AM »

Myhero,

I am so very sorry for your loss. You have my heartfelt condolences.  

You are not alone. We are here for you. When you are ready, share as much or as little as you care to about your dearly beloved daughter and you and your family. We're listening.

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« Reply #15 on: February 04, 2018, 08:00:05 AM »

MyHero

I too am so sorry to hear of your loss and hope that you have much love and support around you in such a dreadful time.  I'm sure you will draw on all the many beautiful memories you shared to sustain you. 
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« Reply #16 on: February 04, 2018, 10:24:51 AM »

Myhero,my heart goes out to you. This is the hardest thing for a parent to have to through.  I do not know how to console you. I too lost my daughter and feel so much for what you are going through. My thoughts and prayers are with
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« Reply #17 on: February 04, 2018, 03:34:53 PM »

I am so sorry about the loss of your daughter.  Take care of yourself. 
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« Reply #18 on: February 05, 2018, 03:14:07 AM »

Myhero, I am so sorry for your loss and send you my deepest condolences and prayers. May this site become a source of support, consolation, and love for you during this time. Like heartandwhole wrote, we are listening. 
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« Reply #19 on: February 05, 2018, 07:43:43 AM »

Oh, myhero -

I am so sorry and I offer you my condolences.  Please keep coming back here, we're listening and you are not alone.
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« Reply #20 on: February 05, 2018, 09:22:08 AM »

Hi MyHero, 

Im sorry for your loss your thoughts are in my prayers.
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« Reply #21 on: February 11, 2018, 03:02:03 PM »

I wish I could find the words... .how sorry I am
for this heart wrenching loss. You and your family are in my daily thoughts.
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