violent outbursts

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My daughter lives with me and my ill husband. She has mood swings she drinks and screams she was in abusive relationship but he is in jail. There are children involved where do I go for help

[crazykid]

My daughter lives with me and my ill husband. She has mood swings she drinks and screams she was in abusive relationship but he is in jail. There are children involved where do I go for help

Our objective is to better understand the struggles our child faces and to learn the skills to improve our relationship and provide a supportive environment and also improve on our own emotional responses, attitudes and effectiveness as a family leaders

[Kwamina]

Hi crazykid

You have a lot on your plate right now. Dealing with an ill husband can be challenging enough, you now are also having to deal with your daughter's behavior, sometimes even violent behavior I gather from the title of your post. That isn't easy to deal with at all.

Since when does your daughter have mood swings and violent outbursts? Do you believe her drinking has gotten out of control?

It is very sad that she was in an abusive relationship. In what ways was the relationship abusive and do you think this has contributed to your daughter's current struggles?

You mention that there are also children involved. Do these children also live with you?

I am glad you reached out for support and hope to read more of your story later.

Take care and welcome to bpdfamily

The Board Parrot

[Mutt]

Hi crazykid,



I’d like to join Kwamina and welcome you to bpdfamily I’m sorry that you husband are going through this  

Id suggest to read as much as you can about BPD there is a reason why your D acts the way that she acts. Everything is here in the site, we communication tools that help with owBPD we have articles on boundaries and there are others here just like you. You’re not alone.

How old is she? How many kids and how old are they? Does your D work?