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« on: April 13, 2018, 09:22:07 PM »

Got a question that I'm actually in the process of asking a friend who's a lawyer, but that may be delayed.

So... .

The firm that represents my STBX's trust in all this has a lawyer, who is considered "of counsel."

This "of counsel" lawyer "represented" me on the prenup. (Put represented in quotes because in retrospect he did a really bad job re: spousal support and retirement benefits)

Seems to me that since that lawyer is "of counsel" and he represented me, that should be a conflict of interest.

Anyone know?

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« Reply #1 on: April 15, 2018, 09:51:37 PM »

Prenup laws vary by state.  Either do an internet search for your state's rules or consult a lawyer.  My understanding was that a prenup required separate legal representation but my quick search indicates that's not the law in all states.
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« Reply #2 on: April 15, 2018, 10:09:58 PM »

I know in my state of PA a legal firm can not represent the opposing clients.  I found this out when I wanted to hire my attorney from a big box law firm and they had me give the opposing parties full name, address, etc.
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« Reply #3 on: April 16, 2018, 08:48:43 AM »

I know in my state of PA a legal firm can not represent the opposing clients.  I found this out when I wanted to hire my attorney from a big box law firm and they had me give the opposing parties full name, address, etc.

Yeah, that was my understanding. Anytime I've even asked for a consultation, I have to give my name & my STBX to rule out conflict.

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