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I was with this chick for 3 years, broke up with her because of her lying ass and completely cut her off since. I never respond to any texts or phone calls I don’t recognize, and it always ends up being her. Ya, obviously I already had blocked her on all the usual stuff.
But I guess theirs this app now that you can get to have like up to 15 numbers, as much as your willing to pay for. So she started using all those to get ahold of me what the heck? I found out it was her all those times by looking up these numbers using an app that you have to pay a little fee but definitely worth it.
Ive said the most meanest stuff to her that I wouldnt even say to my worst enemy, just so she would get the point that we are done; even though I really did mean those things f#%*ing b*£ch. Its been a lil over 6 months now and she still hits me up. Wtf is wrong with this girl? Telling me she still loves me and stuffwhen she messed everything up. Ive told her multiple times leave me alone and sometimes she texts pretending to be someone else what the heck. I dont respond to these texts and she just splurs it out after me not responding to the 1 message she sent with 10 mins, she just tells me its her smh. I dont understand this.
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Hi and welcome to the site Nobody636,
It sounds like you're feeling very frustrated and angry that your ex is contacting you after 6 months. That must be hard for you to have unwanted contact as you're trying to heal. How often does this happen and when was the last time you responded? Maybe you could tell us about what happened to end your 3 year r/s? You're in the right place to talk about this. We understand.
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