Hi flameofnd,
Sorry you are experiencing uncertainty in your relationship!
There is a very supportive community here who can help you on your journey and you work through these issues!
It is not always easy to know. All relationships are different, unique to us and our partners. That said, how do you feel about it? Are you leaning towards getting back together or starting to see you prefer to be apart?
Would you ever feel safe again after this incident where he left fingerprints on your arm?
How does it go when you talk with him? If he continues to get help does that make any difference in your interest level in the relationship? Do you feel love for him?
wishing you peace, pearl.