Wife seems to be breaking down

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I'm just now starting to realize after 25 years of marriage, knowing my wife for 30 years that she is probably BPD. I'm almost at the end of my rope. Advice?

[North cal]

I'm just now starting to realize after 25 years of marriage, knowing my wife for 30 years that she is probably BPD. I'm almost at the end of my rope. Advice?

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[Skip]

If you own bitcoin, sell them. 

Hi North cal 

What's leads you to think the wife has traits of BPD? What is going on in your relationship?

[Harri]

Hello.  I want to join Skip in saying welcome to the site.  You are in the right place to gain support and understanding of your relationship and to learn ways to improve things for yourself.  This can get better.

When you can, tell us more of your story.  In the mean time, feel free to read and explore and just settle in.