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Roxy5

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I don’t know where to start

« on: September 30, 2018, 06:34:36 AM »

Hello,

I’m a new member and my spouse exhibits the traits of BPD. Is this site still active? I don’t know where I should explain my situation in order to get the best advice.

Any help would be great. Thank you.


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macarena

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« Reply #1 on: September 30, 2018, 11:06:41 AM »

Hi Roxy5,

Welcome! Yes, you can definitely find support here. It’s one of the few places I count on with my own struggles. I haven’t been here long but there are members with much experience that give very valuable advice.

What BPD traits does your husband exhibit? What are your main struggles?


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Re: I don’t know where to start

« Reply #2 on: September 30, 2018, 11:14:17 AM »

I’d like to join macarena by welcoming you here

This site is active and we have incredible people who can help you with the best information we can.

There are tools located on the top of the page that we encourage you check out.

Can you tell us a bit more about your relationship and partner ? What allowed you to determine they were showing signs of BPD?


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