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« on: October 14, 2018, 07:41:50 AM »
I feel like I can't live without her. Like if she doesn't come back, I'll just wander the earth pointlessly like some sad hobo. I don't like this feeling. Is this how it feels in a healthy relationship? Because now I have like no power and my welfare seems to be something I'm not in charge of. I'm also afraid to tell her that, so for now I'm not gonna. Anyway, it's a feeling, not a reality, I do believe--meaning I bet many of us have felt this and HAVE moved on to find a life with more meaning.

It's especially humiliating or demeaning or whatever since she has a relationship and I don't so the things very asymmetric
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« Reply #1 on: October 14, 2018, 08:13:39 AM »
it sounds like youre in a lot of pain 

how long ago did the two of you break up? what happened, and whats going on currently?
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« Reply #2 on: October 14, 2018, 10:11:48 AM »
She kept saying I didn't love her wasn't in live with her, I was numb or distant it unfeeling, it's been that way my whole life, I woke up after she left but now she has someone new and significant and I'm a hobo in the snow.
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« Reply #3 on: October 15, 2018, 12:30:48 PM »
how long ago was the breakup? do the two of you have any contact?
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