New to Group

[CindyC]

Hello,

I am new to this group and Just found out/figured out that my adult child is Borderline. I'm here to learn all I can to help myself and him.  He is a new father.  I need help!

Our objective is to better understand the struggles our child faces and to learn the skills to improve our relationship and provide a supportive environment and also improve on our own emotional responses, attitudes and effectiveness as a family leaders

[Merlot]

Hi Cindyc

Welcome to the bpdfamily 

Im sorry that you are going through a difficult time.

You mention that your son is a young father and that you need some help. Are you able to share a little more of what is going on for you both.

You are in a great place with the bpdfamily. We are here to suppprt you through your journey.

I came here 10 months ago in crisis with my DD27 and have not looked back as I continue to learn from wonderful parents and move through the highs and lows of BPD.

The best bit of advice I received early on was to step back out of the drama and to look after myself, and not to take it personally. I also read Stop Walking on Egg shells by Randi Kreger. It validated my world.

I hope to hear from you soon.

Merlot