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How to communicate after a contentious divorce... Following a contentious divorce and custody battle, there are often high emotion and tensions between the parents. Research shows that constant and chronic conflict between the parents negatively impacts the children. The children sense their parents anxiety in their voice, their body language and their parents behavior. Here are some suggestions from Dean Stacer on how to avoid conflict.
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« on: April 24, 2019, 09:44:09 AM »

Hey i m a GP in uk/ ireland and managed to survine a hidden BPD gf for 1 year. The truth came out at the end when i finally caught her cheating etc, so i had a palpable reason to leave the toxic relationship and start CBT .
After 200 h of CBT ( one to one)and books that i read including "stop walking on eggshels "and "i hate don t leave me "and technic CBT/DBT books + most of the internet literature i managed to write a letter to a BPD ex gf
WOuld you be interested to see if you can find yourself there?
It s about how i was living in dissociation and all other defence mechanisms i had  as i was a narcisist myself. It s about my childhood trauma that made me a narcisist and it s about Venus and Mars , represented by the BPD and the NPD.

If you have an interest in evolving and if you think you are ready to change your life, if ylou want to fight with the devil in hell so you can see if there is a heaven or not that you might never reach, you are in the right place.
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« Reply #1 on: April 24, 2019, 04:03:11 PM »

hi nonBorderline, and Welcome

did you have a letter you wanted to share?
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« Reply #2 on: April 26, 2019, 12:06:02 PM »

Hi nonBorderline,

Welcome

Id like to join once removed and welcome you to the family.

How long have you been broken up? Can you share your letter? It might help someone in need.
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