Hello and welcome,
Swifty! 
I'm happy me meet you, though sorry for the circumstances that led you to find us. I look forward to hearing more from tou, how we can best support you.
You'll find many other parents here who are journeying along side you, this place is such a great support for so many of us.
Although I can probably guess, my daughter is 26 and BPD, can you share some more about the issues you're dealing with? Is your daughter diagnosed? In treatment? And, most importantly, how are you coping?
I'm sure others will be along shortly to welcome you, we are glad you are here!
~ OH