Hi
kkce and welcome back, though I'm sorry for the circumstances.
You sure have been through a lot with your daughter, I bet you are exhausted!
I don't have anything to offer regarding treatment centers, so sorry about that. What I do have to offer is hope - many parents here have made changes that have improved their situations.
A good place to start is the thread pinned to the top of this board,
HOW TO GET THE MOST OUT OF THIS SITE. It's got many great articles with links to more. We are all learning together, supporting each other as we learn new ways to communicate/relate to our children. So, come back here with any questions or comments and let's see what we can accomplish together.
In the meantime, please do take very good care of yourself.
~ OH