My nd pBPD had just flipped into the biggest rage and I don’t know what to do
Everything has been good for a year. No episodes after his biggest episode last summer
He informed me on Tuesday night that his family was coming to visit. They are normally the trigger. I said how will they all sleep here? Sister with husband and two young kids, mother and maybe his brother. Our apartment has 2 bedrooms. But at the moment you can’t use upstairs as it’s for no ac and we live in turkey.
He immediately became enraged. Saying his family is more important than me. I said but my family are also coming for the night on Sunday. Where will everyone sleep?
On Monday we fly to England ( me my mum and sister) for my sisters wedding
Last night he became worse
Very aggressive.
He is now threatening to go to the police. To get me deported. He will say I am working illegally.
He has lost all grip on reality. He has just screamed in my face that I control him. Don’t respect him and that I am refusing to let him leave. He will also tell the police that I won’t let him take my belongings
He is threatening that when I’m out the country he will do everything. Even get rid of our dog
He just called me to say he called the landlord to say I’m leaving. I called the landlord and he said he hasn’t spoken to him
Please please help
How can I get him to return to base
