Will my BPD ex ever stop hating me?

[Beforetheworst]

Me and my ex with bpd broke up 6 months ago. I was sad but we agreed to stay friends and all that. I told him I was going to block him for a few months which he seemed okay with. Anyway fast forward 2 months and I find out he’s been bitching about me to everyone and blaming me for the breakup. I was so confused because he was the one who broke up with me and the last time we spoke he was really nice and civil. So I unblock him and give him a message asking what’s going on. He starts saying I didn’t treat him well after the breakup, I didn’t really get it but I apologised anyway. A couple of weeks later he shows up at a party I’m at and follows me around all night. He told me that he hated me after the breakup and has said some really nasty stuff about me. We eventually made up and left it on civil terms again. Fast forward another 2 months and I message him asking to meet up, he makes up some excuse. He’s still bitching about me to people at this point so I ask if he has a problem, he says no and we have a really nice conversation. Once again I think everyone’s fine. Then 2 weeks later he messaged me telling me he does have a problem with me and thinks I’m nasty person. He starts having a go at me for tweets I’ve been liking when he doesn’t even follow me on Twitter. I refuse to apologise as I don’t think I’ve done anything wrong, so he blocks me on Twitter. A week later I try to make up because I presume he’s calmed down. He starts saying I’ve abused him for a year and wants nothing to do with me. The reason for this is because he’s apparently never treated a girl as good as me but I didn’t love him enough. Tbh I do think maybe I didn’t treat him the best and I have apologised for this, however I’ve not treated him awfully. I just maybe didn’t pay him enough attention. He said he wants to block me on everything and have nothing to do with me. I argue back a bit before realising it’s pointless so I just give up and say okay. He doesn’t block me so I decide to block him and just move on and forgot about him. I’ve not unblocked him however he’s got me blocked on Twitter, so if he did want to contact me he could unblock me on Twitter and speak that way but he hasn’t. I found out he’s been seeing another girl and apparently he’s really obsessed with her, so I figured that’s why he hasn’t contact me. However this girl moved away a couple of days ago and my friends have already spotted him on tinder.
Everyone says BPDs usually come back but mine hasn’t tried to come back once. But he always goes back to his other ex’s. There’s this one ex who he always goes back to, no matter what she does and she’s always interfering in his new relationships and trying to get back with him. There’s been a few other ex’s who he’s stayed friends with too. I don’t understand why he hates me the most. Will he ever come back now or will I just be always hated.

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[enlighten me]

Its hard to not take it personally when this happens. Its not you that he hates its himself. Hes got to make you out to be the bad guy or else he has to accept that its him at fault which he doesnt want to do. He knows it is him though and the only way he can deal with his loss of you (and it is a loss) is to make it your fault. This is the hard thing about pwBPD the ones they love they hurt and the ones which get closest are the ones they run from.