Wits wnd

[Meli16]

This is one small example my daughter is in Jackson ms going school. I am in Jonesboro arkansas. She was to come for a visit I sent her a text and said please no name calling to me, binge drinking and sleeping all time. She immediately blasted me “wtf I am not coming that she would be bitched at.”
She has a lot of anger her life. She has no friends. Has burnt most family bridges. One lady in her class called her and told her that no one liked her. Only negative words come from her mouth.
I finally realize that she has BPD. I just ordered I hate u don’t leave me for her and me and get me out of here to hopefully start a conversation on her mental state.
She admits to depression but that is all.
I really don’t know how much more I can handle

Our objective is to better understand the struggles our child faces and to learn the skills to improve our relationship and provide a supportive environment and also improve on our own emotional responses, attitudes and effectiveness as a family leaders

[FaithHopeLove]

Hello Melli. Welcome to the group. I am sorry you are going through such a rough time with your daughter. What led you to the conclusion that she has BPD? O agree with you that " I Hate You Don't Leave Me" is a great book for people who want to better understand their BPD loved ones but I don't know if it is so good for people who have the disorder. They may feel threatened or defensive. Maybe hold off sharing it for now.