My son was diagnosed with BPD as a teen, and he has seen many doctors and counselors. He abuses drugs and alcohol, and has now refused to talk to any doctors/professionals.
I am reading "The Essential Family Guide to Borderline Personality Disorder" to help me understand him better, and he is very much like the description of a higher functioning BP.
I guess the biggest question I have is what is the best way to communicate with him during his rages? Do I just leave him alone and wait for him to contact me? I get so worried about him and it is so stressful.