I need help

[Luca Brasi]

My girlfriend had bdp and she continues to lie to me and cheating on me with other men. Not so much in the sense of having an intimate relationship with them but she entertains the thought of having a relationship with them. Going so far as to calling them pet names and telling them she loves and misses them. The damage and hurt that this causes is something that I can’t get her to understand. When we discuss this she tells me that she wants me not some other man. Yet I’ve seen different in messages and her actions. I need help with this because this is hurting me deeply!

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[Cat Familiar]

Do you live together? How are you aware of her behavior, such as telling them she loves them?