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It's done. Hallelujah.
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The judge signed off on my divorce. It's done. Really done. I'm proud of myself for finally doing what I have known for years was the right thing to do.
I spent the morning crying and I'm feeling better now.
Thanks to everyone who helped me get to this place.
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Who in your life has "personality" issues: Romantic partner
Relationship status: Broken up to recover
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Congratulations on Your Freedom ! Go walk in the Light ! Breathe and Live!
I’m finally getting closure on my end tonight as a mutual friend is coming to get the last remaining items I am feeling better everyday
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I’m finally getting closure on my end tonight as a mutual friend is coming to get the last remaining items I am feeling better everyday
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Thanks, Purplerain. It was a long time coming. I'm glad you're feeling better! It's so liberating, isn't it? I finally feel like I have control of my life.
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Congrats, and good luck in your new life!
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Congrats on your freedom. I clearly remember the sense of relief that I felt when I received the divorce decree from the court. The marriage to my BPD ex-wife was like having a millstone around my neck both financially and emotionally.
Best wishes to you on a happy future!
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