Confused

[Cincy73]

It's so hard to love somebody with bp. One minute they are the love of your life the next minute they are screaming such mean nasty things at you that you don't even recognize this person

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[alterK]

This is a common misery of BPD partners, often referred to as Jekyll and Hyde. If you look at different posts on this forum you will see others' versions of the story. If you want to give details, (what triggers, how you respond, specific instances, etc.) you will probably get more specific advice.