2 months after breaking up she decided to tell me she had already replaced me and moved on. After 4 months of dating her new gf, the new gf proposed to her and bpd ex said yes.
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Our breakup was initiated by bpd ex because she was moving to another state to be with her family and she wanted us to "figure ourselves out before moving states together".
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Is this normal? Is this behavior common with BPD?
is it ordinary behavior to be in a new relationship within 2 months of a breakup? it is.
is it ordinary behavior to be engaged in a new relationship after 4 months? it is.
is it ordinary behavior to initiate a breakup because one is moving states? it is. it is also common for reasons given to be incomplete, or subject to change.
im not saying any of its good or bad (i personally, as a rule, wouldnt be engaged to anyone that quickly, but thats me; it happens all the time). nor am i saying there is or isnt anything "bpdish" about any of it. but it is common, every day behavior.
regardless, it may come as a blow. it almost always does, seeing a partner in a new relationship.
how are you holding up?
