Hi SwanOrnament,
Welcome

Oof, Christmas. Holidays are
so hard when there is BPD in the family.
DD is struggling and desperate to ‘off load’ at any given opportunity…. I try my best to help but can see through the manipulation and her devious nature.
What are some of the ways your DD is manipulating you? It's rough when there's a grandchild involved -- it can feel like everyone loses.
How are you coping with the radio silence?
Does DD leave far away?