My ex has texted me restlessly yesterday. Telling how love is a choice, and he chooses to be with me. He wants me back. I have my other Facebook but I am still saving the 1000s pictures that I have and even though I have deleted him off of it he is continuing to put my girls picture up on his timeline profile picture which is public.
I feel so low today because am I wrong for not wanting to go back? Am I the insane one that doesn't want to try? Yet on the other hand I peak into that room... .just little. Do I have feelings for him like love? Absolutely not. Then what is this?
I haven't said a word in over two months, surely he should have known by now that after we broke up there is no chance. None. I have moved on.
The man that I have now treats me the way I desire and want to be treated. Yet a small part of me feels restless. Because I have been so used to fighting to get what I want (not getting it)... .never just having what I needed (not fighting for it).
I know I have nothing to worry about. Yet my mind is going. Thrown into this preverbal cycle of lies again. Million dollar question... .is why? Why ask a question when I already know the answer. Why do I even peak when I know that this is this way of recycling the relationship and throwing me back into the darkness? I try to feel and relive the moments that will forever stink deep in my soul. How horrible it was. I am finally free... .but am I?
In bold.
A logical non... .
Would have come to that conclusion.
A pwBPD... .
Will not.
They cannot... .
Dont know how to... .
Dont want to... .
Come to that conclusion.
The disorder compels them... .
To behave in such a manner.
When my exUBPgf returned to me in round 2... .
Begging and crying... .
For me to take her back... .
I asked her... .
Shortly afterwards... .
"Morena(my nick name for her)... .
What would you have done... .
If i was already with someone else... .?"
Her: "i would have done everything... .
In my power... .
To break you and her apart.
You are MY man."
Is that what you say to someone... .?
I thought to myself... .
Clearly something is really f¥cking wrong here.
KHC... .
You are free... .
As long as you keep your ex... .
On the other side... .
Of your NC wall.
Not easy at all... .
But that is only choice at hand.
I know it sucks.
It hurts.
I know.
Hang in there.