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Panda39

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Who in your life has "personality" issues: Romantic partner’s ex
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Re: Invalidation - the big trigger

« Reply #30 on: October 13, 2018, 10:39:02 AM »

agotada,

Welcome back, I'm glad you posted too, and that you feel this is a safe place to share your feelings. Your pregnancy is sure creating a lot of difficult decisions for you. No matter what you decide, sounds like adoption from your post, be sure to take care of you.

How have you been feeling about all of this? I can imagine a lot of mixed feelings. Please let us know how we can support you. We are good listeners.

Take Care,
Panda39


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