Hi Binkie and another welcome from me
Fortunately for all of us, this site is pretty active. New members join almost every day, and many members keep posting for years.
How old is your adult daughter? Does she have a job or other reason to get out of the house?
Like BPDstinks mentioned, taking care of yourself is a good first step in un-trapping yourself from her life. Take a look at some of our material on
When a teen or adult child has Borderline Personality Disorder; some of those articles may resonate with you and help you find something you can change in your life for the better.
kells76